Monday, November 02, 2009

I like…I like…

The thumbs up icon in Facebook is probably my most favorite tool. Considering the increasing amount of friends on Facebook, it is getting extremely hard to keep up considerable amount of communication with all. In fact I think I was much happier not knowing what half of my high school was up to. Information overload!

That’s where the ‘I like’ feature comes in so handy. I don’t have to write any comments or even pay as much attention to a thread by half a dozen people I don’t know. I can just like the photo or post or whatever and still let my friend know:

a. I saw the post/photo
b. I’m still an active friend
c. and the best of all - I don’t have to say what I REALLY feel :)

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Random Thoughts

Its afternoon and the heat is seeping in through the windows. I lie in my bed staring at the old fan that sways and creaks at the same time. I think of my summer vacation being spent in an air conditioned apartment and wonder why I could not have lived there forever. The room has taken the color of its curtains and I cannot remember if it was pink or blue. The radio plays old Hindi classics. I hope to fall in love with someone, somewhere at some point of time. I am oblivious to my legal sized notebooks full of class notes barely fluttering to the breeze from the fan. I need to read those if I want to do better than merely passing. But merely passing is fine with me and so I continue staring and listening.

Several years have gone by. Our house actually has air conditioning and the weather is cool. Yet I somehow feel I’m in that room with the fan and it’s so peaceful. The earphones plugged into my ears still play old Hindi classics. The only difference is in the notebook that has been replaced with the chapters in my life that dare not take me to oblivion.

Friday, March 27, 2009

Oh Crap!

Today’s FB status update that generated the most number of comments for me, needs mention on my blog: Mala Paul forgot something on my way back home last night - MY DAUGHTER...oh crap!

No kidding. So this is what happened:
I left work and started driving. I had a lot of stuff on my mind. I was thinking how I was in need of some ‘white space’ in my life and was one light away from the freeway when I realized I was actually able to listen to myself think in the peace and quiet of my car. Something was off. I NEVER have peace and quiet in my car. Oh yah, Evani wasn't jabbering behind me—I had forgotten to pick her up from daycare! Thankfully I was within 5 mins of driving distance and was able to make a u-turn.

So all these days of being astonished by cases where parents forgot their kids in the car or somewhere else—now I know. Your mind just shuts off and you experience a moment of bliss.

I am soooo not having another child…
I love you doll and will never forget you ever (or at least will try not to)!

Happy Friday folks!

Friday, March 13, 2009

Inspiration

Now THIS is something I would like to wipe my bottom with! Who knew the evil king Duryodhana who ordered “Cheerharan” or stripping of the saree would end up in a toilet roll - AWESOME!


Courtesy Indian By Design.

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

2


Evani turned 2 last Friday. As soon as that happened, someone turned the ‘terrible’ switch on since she has never been crankier. She manages to throw a temper tantrum for almost everything now. The mornings are worst when I’m trying to get us both ready and out of the door.

Both me and Shomeek aren’t too big on large b’day parties. We like keeping it small and personal. In fact, we plan to eliminate b’day parties all together and go somewhere fun on her birthdays starting next year. In fact last weekend we were supposed to take her to the aquarium at SF, but due to her cold and bad weather we stayed put. Friday we celebrated with a close group of friends and family. It wasn’t the usual kids party though. Even though they did have tons of fun playing with each other and there were balloons and bubbles (bad idea!), pizza and cake, there were no life size Elmos or clowns for entertainment. Neither was there a Dora or Princess theme. I just don’t want Evani to be fixated with such characters and would like her to appreciate the company and attention, the simple concept of being able to play with friends and have a good time. That being said, we did have a great party where kids and parents enjoyed alike.

I sometimes cannot believe it’s already been two years. I cannot imagine my life without her anymore. She talks in full sentences now. Can count up to 20 and can say most of her nursery rhymes. She has a sweet tooth and sucks her thumb when she’s tired (that we are trying to get rid of). She has traveled to Calcutta, Toronto (twice), Montreal, Vancouver and Seattle and we are looking forward to her fist camping trip this May. It took her three months to adjust to daycare and she is totally a mommy’s girl. We love her more than anything!

Monday, February 23, 2009

Mala Designs



As I was organizing my files I came across this invitation that I designed for the Bangladeshi concert last year.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Love & Laughter


...a card from daughter
...a card and spa gift certificate from Hubby
...wine tasting
...long stemmed rose
...new found friends at winery
...good times with old friends
...mango martinis
and Russell Peters...

...I still cannot stop laughing!